PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT E-portfolio

Discussion TRUST is a very important aspect in any relationship (whether social relationships, personal and intimate relationships, etc.).   QUESTIONS: (answers must be at least 5 sentences) 1. What triggered the behavior of Eric?      Eric's violent behavior was triggered by his jealousy that came from insecurity and thoughts from being replaced by another partner. However, I also think that there are other factors that caused Eric to act hostile towards other people. Growing up in a patriarchal society, the norms of men always being the dominant ones in the relationship will always put guys like Eric into pressure where they are "supposedly" the ones who should be in control. Thus, these people grow up, thinking that it is normal to be hostile whenever we get jealous over people, which clearly is not. Therefore, such thinking can easily trigger violence, which can affect and ruin relationships as it is toxic and a sign of manipulation. 2. "Lumiit yung mundo ko...

Reflection In our synchronous (live) class discussion, we talked about the importance of loving yourself. We cannot give what we do not have, and the same goes with loving other people (whether it is family, friends, significant other, etc.). Being single is not something to be ashamed of, and it doesn't mean that if other people are in a relationship or they have a boyfriend or girlfriend, they are better or happier than you. It does not make you less of a person or less worthy if you are single, and people should not rush into a relationship if it is not really the right relationship, or the one meant for them. Listen to the song and pay attention to the LYRICS of the song which gives the message. Reflect on the song and answer the question/s that follow. QUESTIONS: 1. What is the song all about? Give support to your answers by citing specific lines/lyrics from the song.      "Minsan, parang 'di pag-ibig ang sagot kahit na, sa pag-iisa ay nababagot. Aanhin,ko ang paghah...

  Name of Organization Type of Organization My Position/Role in the Organization The Mahiwaga Initiative Youth Organization Volunteer Group Co-founder Externals Head Quezon Science Madrigal Virtuosos Choir School Organization Member Gabriela Youth Southern Tagalog National Democratic Mass Organization Member Queer Quezon Mass Organization Member Process Questions: 1. After doing the activity, what have you realized?      I realized that even though I am only a part of a few organizations, that does not mean that I am not as active as the other people within our community. I have always to be more involved in more youth organizations that advocate for the masses, the environment, animal welfare, and more charities. However, I think that I will stick with these organizations first, as I am still tr...

Reflection REFLECT ON THIS: Someone Like You - Adele This song is related/connected to the scenario of Sarah and Daryl (in our discussion about commitment; make sure you have watched the video in Week 2 before answering the following discussion questions). This song tells a story. Listen to the song up to the end and pay attention to the LYRICS of the song which gives the story and the message. Then, answer the discussion questions that follow. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS: (answer in 5-10 sentences per question) 1. What is the song all about? What are the main parts/messages of the song that give the story? Explain and give supporting statements found in the lyrics/message.     "Someone Like You" by Adele is a song about someone who saw their former partner. In the lyrics, "I heard that you're settled down, that you found a girl and you're married now," it shows that the former lover as already moved on from the past. This contradicts the next lyrics, "I had h...

PERDEV Topic: Relationships Discussion question: Based on the discussions about relationship, if you were the guy (best friend) in the video, do you think it is worth it to stay in the relationship?      If I were the guy, I would think that it is still worth it to stay in the relationship. Although there are some cases where platonic relationships turn into romantic ones, I wouldn't want to risk our relationship if it meant that it was only one-sided. I would stay because I think that my friend deserves to have someone with her who will stay, even though I will never be her romantic partner. It may break my heart to see her with someone new, but I would always be happy for her, and accept the fact that I will not be the guy she'll fall in love with. If we were ever going to pursue a romantic relationship together, I would want her to love me for "me", without feeling forced to reciprocate my feelings for her.

  1. Why is COMMITMENT important in relationships?      The main goal of making a commitment is for both people to feel a sense of security. Not only is it about dedicating your love and self to your partner, but it also deals with the actions that you need to do to maintain your relationship. Although the degree of commitment differs in every relationship, it is still an important part of every relationship as it helps both parties to grow. If there is a commitment in the relationship, there will always be a sense of trust and comfortability that will reassure the people’s mutual understanding. When your relationship has commitment, you will be more likely to have no problem, or at least be able to solve problems together, rather than fight about it.  2. What is "CLOSURE" in a relationship? Why is it important? In relationships, closure involves knowing the reason why it has ended. Having closure helps you accept all the reasons why the relationship had to en...

Discussion Exactly 5 sentences only. How do you show your attraction, love and commitment to your loved ones? Enumerate each and explain.      I often try to express my love for others through words and gestures as I think that is it essential for every relationship. I often show my affection through words of affirmation since I always want to motivate them through tough times. I also often express my love by giving a lot of hugs, since I want my loved ones to feel warmth and comfort. I always try to lend a helping hand mentally and/or physically, because I want them to know that I will always be there in times of trouble. I also try to show that I respect them by always trusting them, being honest, and showing kindness all the time, since I believe that everyone deserves to be treated this way.

Discussion Watch the video and answer the discussion questions in exactly 5 sentences only. Acceptable expression of attractions is beneficial for both parties, and unacceptable expressions of attraction displease each individual in a relationship or even the people in the society. 1. What are acceptable ways of public display of affection?  What should or should not be done in public?      I think that any kind of public display of affection that is not extreme is deemed acceptable by society as long as it is not causing any discomfort. Public display of affection is normal in all relationships, platonic and romantic, as it is a way for expressing love. Holding hands, giving hugs and timid kisses are accepted by most people. However, the extreme kinds of PDA, such as sexual acts and the likes, are inappropriate. It is okay to express our love publicly, as long as it does not cross boundaries and cause uneasiness to the people around them.  2. If you are in that...